A Gentle Passing, All Too Soon

Our valiant John quietly passed away on the evening of January 9, 2011. His family had gathered with him for days, sharing stories and memories with each other, keeping the memories alive for John who was, we are sure, listening to every word. Lifepath Hospice sent nurses for round the clock duty and they were joined by caregivers from Rescare so we all knew he was being watched over vigilantly by those who loved and cared for him. John's memorial service will be at St. Mary's Episcopal Church on Sunday, January 16, at 1:00 pm.

Sadly, John's condition worsens

We look back on our two weeks of holidays with the family and John participating happily as such a blessing and are grateful for those happy memories. As so often happens, once the visits with family were over, he seemed to "let down his guard" and his condition rapidly deteriorated. Hospice deemed it appropriate to provide continuous care, which consists of an RN or LPN being with him 24 hours a day. In addition, we've gotten extra help from Rescare, so there are two people with him, vigilantly watching and valiantly trying to make him calm and comfortable. The family's returned and I know it's comforting for him to hear familiar voices and to be at home. We remain stunned that this fate has befallen our special fellow and are constantly grateful for the outpouring of support and love that has come our way from all of you.

Christmas Traditions and Transitions

Christmas has been a joyous time with all our children gathered round. We feel lucky that we were all able to enjoy visiting together and have many huge laughs as memories were shared and our little Soren entertained us. With nine or ten people coming and going there was a constant stream of stories to share and activities inspired by Christmas gifts of board games and card games. Having the time for a movie here and there was a blessing for our busy young folks and sharing cozy evening meals by the fire has been memorable. John holds his own, and continues to be upbeat and the anchor for us all.

We met our admitting nurse from Hospice on Friday who introduced our family to the team that will help us going forward. A second nurse visited on Saturday and another will come Monday to plan John's care with Ellen. John is glad to have some help for Ellen, and to have assistance provided at home, which will be so much less stressful than traveling to various health professionals around town.

Since John and Ellen will be at home most of the time now, they are happy to hear from friends for phone visits or to arrange to drop by, and calling the home phone works best for that. The number is 813 831-2635. All the best to everyone, and a happy new year. Dee